This strategy suggests that before you tackle a ‘difficult’ topic, you consult the young person you are going to be talking with, and get some advice as to how to tackle this subject, and what to do if it becomes hard for the young person.This activity complements both Vid 5: ‘How ya doin?’ and Vid 6: ‘Park it and talk.’ They are each stand-alone but make sense in a sequence from 5 to 7.