An activity when you need to have a tricky-sensitive chat with a young person. It suggests that you ‘park’ what you need to talk about, and spend a few minutes getting to know each other – that is, building a relationship so that you are able to have the important chat. This activity complements both Vid 5: ‘How ya doin?’ and Vid 7: ‘Alert…advise.’ They are each stand-alone but make sense in a sequence from 5 to 7.